The way we see the problem
People are inttriguade when they see good things happening in lives or individuals, families and organizations that based on solid principles. They admire such personal strength and maturity, such family unity and teamwork, such adaptive syneregistic organization culture.
And they immediate request is very revealing of thier basic paradigm. "How do you do it? Teach me the techniques". What they are really saying is, "Give me some quick fix advice or solution"….
They will find people who will meet thier want and teach these things; and for a short time. They may eliminate some of the cosmetic or acute problems through social aspirin and band-aids.
But the underlying chrnics condition remains, and eventually new acute symptoms will appear.
THE WAY WE SEE THE PROBLEM IS THE PROBLEM…….
Quote from ….. Part One [Paradigms and Principle] - 7 Habits of Highly Effective People……
Hope it applies in our daily life no matter we are working, teaching, managing, relaxing etc…. And even me still learning it……. Wish to apply this to my current IT job or any other engineering related field you are in……
November 25th, 2006 at 3:35 am
People who truly confront with the life problems will not easy to solve if just rush to find solutions from others. Sometimes, it won’t work at all. From this post, what I feel is those tend to find solution from other by this way actually is just their high ambitious of getting quick or fast money. May be I might wrong, but this is just my personal opinion. And yet, as I believe that people see the WORLD in terms of what they would like to see happen, not WHAT actually does ..Cheers~